Couples Therapy: Restore Polarity and Stop Conflicts
Couples Therapy: Restore Polarity & Stop Conflicts
My approach to couples therapy is not about compromise or learning to "speak nicely." It is about recovering the energetic polarity – the tension field between the masculine and the feminine – which is the prerequisite for desire and depth. My approach is not about compromise. It is about recovering energetic polarity – the prerequisite for desire and depth.
From Roommates to Living Polarity
Some couples function perfectly on the surface. You have mastered the logistics, the children, and the finances. You have become the world's best "roommates." But the price has been high: The spark is gone, and you navigate a daily life characterized by duty, routine, and perhaps a creeping loneliness.
Perhaps you have ended up in the trenches, where the same exhausting conflicts loop endlessly. In our approach, we work from the principle: Two half people cannot create a whole relationship. You must learn to stand as two independent "pillars" to meet in clarity.
The Model: 3 Phases
Joint → Individual → Joint
Diagnostics of the Field
Joint Session
Diagnostics of the Field
Through psychological conversation and energetic reading, we identify exactly where the dynamic locks. We find the root cause of the noise.
The Individual Clearing
Separate Sessions
Individual Clearing
90% of conflicts are projections. You learn to "pull your field home" and take responsibility for your own turmoil. We remove the inflammation so you can see each other clearly again.
The New Meeting Place
Joint Sessions
The New Meeting Place
We train Communication from Essence and reopen intimacy. From attack/defense to vulnerability and strength.
What Will You Gain?
From Logistics to Spark
You move from being a project consortium to being lovers. Many experience a renewed and better sex life.
Energetic Responsibility
The better you are at standing alone (being pillars), the deeper you can melt together.
Acceptance & Understanding
You move from irritation to acceptance and understanding of each other's differences.
Stop Projections
No more endless discussions. You learn to distinguish: "What is mine, and what is yours?"
The Truth About Growth
I do not work from the premise that you must stay together at any cost. When we clear up your individual traumas and patterns, something often happens: you see each other with completely fresh eyes.
I do not work from the premise that you must stay together. When we clear up, you often see each other with fresh eyes.
The Best Scenario: You fall in love anew with the "updated" version of each other.You fall in love anew.
The Honest Scenario: You discover that you chose each other based on old criteria (security, "mom/dad" roles, or wounds) that you have now outgrown.You discover that you chose each other based on old wounds you have outgrown.
Sometimes the greatest declaration of love is to set each other free. My goal is not to save the relationship, but to create clarity – whether that leads to a new beginning together, or a respectful ending.
My goal is to create clarity – not to keep you together at any cost.
Individual Integration with Sune
In the individual phase (Phase II), I recommend that both partners work in parallel with Sune. He helps integrate the deep shifts and translate them into concrete action in everyday life.
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